Linda
Blīgzna

Hello! It’s great to see you here. I’m Linda Blīgzna—a person who, in search of inner peace, transformed my life and now helps others do the same!

For a very long time in my life, I lived completely disconnected from myself. It seems I existed in my mind, unconsciously doing so much to destroy myself. While I lived in my head, my body was living its own life, and my heart was “walled in for safety,” because feeling myself was too painful. Only now do I realize that my hobby was suffering, and my passion—being a savior. I believed that if I could fix everyone close to me—“because I know better what they need,” if I could “heal the ancestral line,” then finally, I would be able to enjoy happiness myself.

My encounter with the realization that the best thing I can do for myself, my family, and my lineage is to take responsibility for my own life was deeply unsettling. That this means taking my rightful place within the family system—being a child to my parents, a mother to my child, a wife to my husband, a sister to my brothers and sister… and nothing else. Right now, I believe this is the only path to authenticity—living life from my true place, accepting my parents as they are. Perhaps with time, I will think differently… I have stopped demanding the wisdom of an elder from myself. I allow myself to make mistakes. I am learning about myself and about life. At this moment, I am learning to listen to my body, interpreting the symptoms it presents, and with the help of Bert Hellinger’s method, I explore what it is trying to say through the “excess weight,” passed down through generations. I am navigating complex emotions as I search for and come to know my father at the age of 32. The more I work with family constellations and raise our daughter together with my beloved husband—sailing through the realities of man and woman coexisting in marriage—the more I feel how profoundly these relationships are influenced by our connections with our parents, grandparents, and the events in our family history. I see how deeply this affects our partnerships, how desperately we long for love, yet when love finds us, we work so hard to destroy it—because deep down, we don’t truly believe we are allowed to be happy.

And so, from generation to generation, we pass on these “inheritances,” until the body and life itself begin to send signals through symptoms such as: relationship crises, depression, recurring events passed down through generations, life patterns that endlessly repeat, lack of money, challenges in relationships with children, work-related issues, various illnesses, and more. Life speaks loudly—so that we may finally come into contact with ourselves, so that we may begin to see and to hear:

 “Hey, it can be different! You have to find the reason why things are the way they are. You have to see it, acknowledge it, and let it go! And then—by getting to know your true self—you have to feel WHAT and HOW it is that I truly want.”

I’ll be happy to be truly present with you in your moments of connection.

Linda Blīgzna